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Listing or settling a home after the last HECM borrower dies

Tom Jarboe, NMLS #210600
Checked November 3, 2026

Written for real estate agents, planners, CPAs and attorneys. Homeowner or family member? Start with the family guide: Heirs: keep the house, sell it, or walk away.

The short answer

When the last borrower on a HECM dies, the loan comes due, and the estate gets 30 days from the servicer's notice to say whether it will pay off, sell, or give a deed in lieu. The servicer generally must start foreclosure within six months, counted from when it notified HUD of the death (case numbers from Sept. 19, 2017 on) or from the death (older loans). HUD may approve up to two 90-day extensions, with proof. If the balance is higher than the home's value, a sale for at least 95% of the current appraised value satisfies the loan.

Here's how I explain it: the clock starts before probate is done, and someone needs authority to sign before anything closes. The family's side is in keep, sell or walk away; a living borrower's sale is in selling a home with a reverse mortgage.

The clocks, in order

StepRule
Servicer tells HUD the loan is dueWithin 60 days (24 CFR 206.125(a)(1))
Servicer sends the due-and-payable noticeWithin 30 days after telling HUD, so up to about 90 days after the death
Estate responds: pay off, sell, or deed in lieu30 days from the notice date (206.125(a)(2))
Servicer must start foreclosureWithin six months, counted from when the servicer notified HUD of the death (case numbers from Sept. 19, 2017 on) or from the death (older loans), unless HUD approves more time (206.125(d); Handbook III.B.2.d.i)
Extensions for the estateNo more than two, 90 days each, with proof of marketing, a delayed contract or a payoff in progress (Handbook III.B.2.d.iii)
Deed in lieu recordedWithin 9 months of the due date (case numbers from Sept. 19, 2017 on)

The 30 days are for stating the plan, not closing. The servicer's own extra 90-day extension isn't selling time, and no extension is promised. Don't wait for the letter: HUD lets the servicer accept a phone call as notice of the death.

The 95% rule, and what it means for pricing

When the loan is due, the estate may sell for at least the lesser of the balance or 95% of the current appraised value, and the net proceeds satisfy the loan.

The servicer orders the appraisal within 30 days of the request and pays for it up front, then is repaid from the sale.

In a sale for less than the balance, HUD's rule limits the sale's closing costs to the greater of 11% of the price or an amount HUD sets (24 CFR 206.125).

For the listing agent:

Keeping the home: HUD's own materials describe the heir payoff differently, so get the exact payoff from the servicer in writing before an heir applies for a new loan. The balance keeps growing with interest and mortgage insurance until the loan is paid, so every month of delay costs the estate.

A HECM is non-recourse: the lender collects only from the home, so the estate and heirs never owe the difference (24 CFR 206.27(b)(8)). FHA insurance protects the lender, not the family. New American Funding is not acting for HUD, FHA or any government agency.

Who can sign, in California

HUD lets the borrower's estate or any "other party with legal right to dispose of the property" sell or give the deed in lieu. California law decides who that is. These are the rules and their sources, not legal advice. Attorneys should rely on their own judgment, and agents should confirm authority with the estate's attorney.

Keeping the house insured and cared for while it sits

HUD's heirs sheet says taxes and insurance stay the estate's job until title transfers, and Probate Code 9650(b) requires a personal representative to pay taxes and protect and preserve estate property. In practice:

If a spouse still lives there

A spouse who wasn't a borrower may stay only if named in the loan documents at closing as an eligible non-borrowing spouse, still married, and living there (24 CFR 206.55). Then there's no sale to plan yet, so check the loan papers before listing. See the non-borrowing spouse guide.

Deed in lieu and cash for keys

The servicer must accept a deed in lieu when it can get good and marketable title (24 CFR 206.125(f); Handbook III.B.2.d.vi).

It may offer "cash for keys," at its choice, within HUD's caps: up to $7,500 plus up to $5,000 in probate costs if completed within 365 days of the due date, or $5,000 plus probate costs from day 366 to day 547. More in deed in lieu after a death.

Checklist: who does what

When it goes wrong

Working with me

Call me at (909) 869-6588 or email [email protected]. Your client is welcome to call me directly, and I'll say plainly when a new loan isn't a fit. I'm not the servicer and can't change its decisions.

For anyone considering a reverse mortgage of their own, counseling with an independent HUD-approved counselor is required before applying, and California adds a 7-day wait after counseling before a final application or any fees.

This page is education only. I don't pay or accept referral fees or anything of value for referrals, and your clients are always free to choose any lender.

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Tom Jarboe, Regional Sales Manager, New American Funding, NMLS #210600, Diamond Bar.

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Tom Jarboe, Regional Sales Manager, New American Funding
NMLS #210600
20955 Pathfinder Rd, Suite 200
Diamond Bar, CA 91765

(909) 869-6588
[email protected]